
Size Does Matter
The Truth about Male Eating Disorders
Author:
Vanessa Carter
“Honey, dinner’s ready!” yells Taylor’s mom. “That’s
ok mom, I already ate!” Taylor yells back. Taylor
guiltily looks around at the empty boxes of cookies,
the half-eaten extra large pizza still in its box, the
jumble of candy wrappers strewn around the room like
confetti, and sighs. Taylor quietly slips down the
hall, scoots in to the bathroom, and repeats the
nightly ritual of self-induced vomiting.
Taylor is a guy.
If this surprises you, it shouldn’t. About 10 million
people in the U.S. suffer from eating disorders; a
reported 15 percent of those 10 million are male.
There very well may be many more men who suffer from
eating disorders, but they are not willing to admit it.
Most people think that eating disorders in males
are “rare” because of the fact that our society views
men as being less concerned with appearance and body
image, and eating disorder victims are
considered “weak.” However, eating disorders are
psychological problems and often not related to
appearance or weakness. Even the most macho body-
building type guys can suffer from eating disorders.
This shows that eating disorders in men are a real
problem that many guys face, but they keep their
illness a secret.
You may think that the only types of eating disorders
are anorexia and bulimia but guess what? There are
many other types of eating disorders, including
compulsive overeating (where someone eats huge amounts
of food in one sitting) and compulsive exercising
(where people deprive themselves of food, work out for
several hours, and exercise for self-punishment.)
Men who are athletes are common sufferers of eating
disorders because of the physical regulations their
sport places upon them. Athletes may be forced by
their trainer or coach to exercise rigorously or lose
a large amount of weight in a short amount of time.
The psychological stress of striving to sculpt a
perfect body may also lead to other unhealthy
behavior, such as taking steroids.
Men who are questioning their sexuality may find it
difficult to deal with their complex feelings, and
use controlling their weight and eating habits as an
outlet for these feelings.
I asked some teen guys their opinions on body image,
stereotypes, and male eating disorders.
Andy Rogers, 15, of Aptos High School said, “I don’t
think that guys are bored enough to spend time to
care about what they look like.”
Daniel Kane, 15, also of Aptos said, “I think guys
worry about what they look like too, but they don’t
admit it.”
Anthony Quiroz, 16, of Soquel High School said, “I
don’t think guys are as uncomfortable about their
looks and their bodies as girls are. Girls have more
of a set look that they see in the media. Guys don’t
have that. Like, a good example is Jack Black [Shallow
Hal, School of Rock]. That guy’s cool, but if you saw
a girl like that you’d say ‘ew’ because people aren’t
used to seeing girls as less than perfect.”
One guy, who wished to remain anonymous, said that he
was teased a lot for being heavy as a kid. He decided
to go on a major diet and went from about 190 pounds
to 140 pounds in a few months.
Funny, none of these guys even mentioned eating
disorders. I guess people still regard eating
disorders as a “woman’s disease,” but the truth is
that eating disorders disregard gender, race,
sexuality and everything in between. Eating disorders
are used as a cover-up to shield and avoid other
issues.
If you think you or someone you know may have an
eating disorder, check out www.aweighout.com
for advice on what to do or talk to a friend, your
doctor, or someone you trust.